Psychologist Pooja Deoke

Parenting

“Children are educated by what the grown-up is and not by his talk.”

Do you feel your kids don’t listen to you? Are you struggling to communicate effectively with your children?

Parenting is a multifaceted and evolving journey that involves nurturing and guiding children from infancy to adulthood. Effective parenting encompasses various skills, approaches, and attitudes aimed at fostering a child’s physical, emotional, social, and intellectual development.

Unconditional love forms the foundation of a healthy parent-child relationship. Expressing love and affection creates a secure emotional environment for the child. Establishing clear and consistent boundaries helps children understand acceptable behaviour. Boundaries provide a sense of security and structure. Open and positive communication is essential for building trust and understanding. Encouraging dialogue helps children express themselves and develop effective communication skills. Disciplining is very important but it’s about teaching and guiding, not just punishing. Consistency in discipline helps children understand the consequences of their actions. Modeling and teaching emotional regulation helps children manage their emotions effectively. This skill is crucial for building healthy relationships. Lastly, fostering a sense of curiosity and a love for exploration stimulates intellectual growth. Support your child’s interests and encourage a lifelong love of learning.

Parenting is a continuous learning experience, and no one-size-fits-all approach exists. It’s essential to adapt your parenting style to the unique needs and personalities of your children while maintaining a loving and supportive environment. Seeking information, support, and professional advice when needed contributes to a positive and effective parenting journey.